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Rebound Guy Gets His Girl Back.

Submitted by: Crandall W.

Kinder, Louisiana

I love inner seeking knowledge, it is my passion and my joy.

Hi everyone, I have an amazing story for you. It’s going to be long, but I think you’ll want to hear it.

First, remember that there are infinite parallel realities happening simultaneously. In each of these realities, there are versions of you leading both similar and different lives based on the choices you make. As a spiritual being, you shift through these realities billions of times per second. However, you only move between the versions of yourself that align with your frequency. This means that your realities are limited to your vibration or state of being. Changing your state of being will change your experiences, regardless of external circumstances. Instead of validating external circumstances as truth, focus on validating your internal state of being as truth. Once you understand this principle completely, you will free yourself to the possibilities of the law of attraction, which is unlimited.

My Story:

I’ve been studying the law of attraction and other metaphysical concepts for years, and it all started with The Secret. I’ve been searching for any information that could give me a new perspective or that “AHA” moment of understanding that I had been missing. The information mentioned above is what I have finally come to understand, even though I’ve heard Bashar speak about it many times. However, it never really clicked with me until after my relationship ended with my girlfriend.

I was ready to meet and date my wife, so I decided to use the law of attraction. I actually had someone specific in mind, but then I let the Universe pick someone else for comparison. The only preference I gave to the Universe was what I wanted her to look like. I spent a week visualizing, an hour or two each day, half the time for the specific girl and half the time for the Universe’s pick, three days for each.

I stopped visualizing because I got tired and gave up, thereby letting it go. By that time, the visualization process had already ingrained itself into my subconscious mind. I had memories of something that hadn’t even occurred yet. I found that I liked the Universe’s pick much better. I was led into another state, and she found me. She looked exactly as I had pictured her, and we hit it off. I knew she was to be my wife. She had the perfect personality and natural beauty, and everything just fit. We are yin and yang, so I had no problem spending whatever resources I had for her.

We lived 3 hours apart. So I drove back and forth 6-8 times a month round trip to spend time with her and her son as I looked for a job in her city. We moved fast but had the greatest relationship. I ignored all the red flags, blinded because I had her on the pedestal. So, $4000, 10,000 miles, and five months later, we were broken up. How how could this happen? Remember those red flags. She had just gotten out of a two-year relationship a month before we met, and I realized I was essentially a rebound relationship.

I remember the situation clearly. The other guy came back asking for a second chance, and she gave it to him because she had more love for him than me. She no longer found me attractive and saw me as a weak man. We were two different people, and it didn’t take her long to realize she had made a big mistake. However, she said it was too late and that she wanted to be there when I got married. She also apologized for hurting me and told me that I would find someone better. She said she regretted not loving me enough to keep me.

I started using the law of attraction to pick myself up. I focused on having fun and not thinking about her. I also used other techniques like fasting. I imagined us getting back together while doing a 3-4 day fast, believing that this would enhance the law of attraction. As a result, her words began to change, and soon she asked me to meet her. I was feeling great and having fun. When we finally met, she was emotional and told me that she wished she could be strong like me.

I just went through a tough time in my relationship. I tried to distance myself, but it didn’t work out as planned. After some emotional back and forth, she told me she needed space and didn’t want to keep playing with my feelings. I decided to focus on the law of attraction and used the power of visualization and positive thinking to turn things around. After a few days, she reached out to me, and I could sense that things were starting to improve. Eventually, she called to tell me she had broken up with her partner and wanted to explore things with me. I made it clear that I wouldn’t give unlimited chances, and she agreed that it wouldn’t be necessary.

I just got off the phone with her a couple of hours ago. We are now happy and taking things slow as friends, with the understanding that we are definitely working towards a relationship by allowing it to progress naturally and giving her the space she needs for her heart to heal first. We are not rushing things as we did before.

In two months, I will be living in the same city with a great career, so I won’t have to travel back and forth. The other guy just wasn’t her type, and she deleted his name and number. I’m not worried, but I continue to use the law of attraction for the engagement. This experience has made us both better people.

This was all done while I was living three hours away from her, with no texts or phone calls initiated. There was also someone else in the picture that she previously said she loved more than me.

Trust the Universe and let it go. It knows the way. Be grateful for everything every day.

 

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