Ask Rhonda

How can I attract a specific person?

In this video, Rhonda is asked how to attract a specific person. She explains that it is not possible to use the Law of Attraction against another person’s free will as that would mean your own free will could be overturned. She suggests that you should instead allow the Universe to bring you your ideal partner whoever that might be.

How do I cancel a negative thought?

In this video, Rhonda is asked whether saying “Cancel, cancel” is effective in stopping a negative thought from manifesting. Rhonda agrees that “Cancel, cancel” works but also suggests turning the negative thought around to make it positive.

Do manifestations take time to materialize?

In this video, Rhonda is asked “Do manifestations take time to materialize?” Rhonda explains why manifestations can sometimes seem to take time to materialize but it’s not necessarily true and that it all depends on the amount of resistance you have.

How do I feel gratitude when I am feeling flat and emotionally spent?

In this video, Rhonda is asked “How do I feel gratitude when I am burnt out and emotionally empty?” Rhonda describes the best course of action on how to truly feel gratitude when you are feeling down, or exhausted, or unwell.

How do I manifest my dream retirement?

In this video, Rhonda is asked “How can I manifest my dream retirement?” Rhonda describes the best way to manifest an early retirement and an ideal life after work.

Should I visualize the lifestyle I want or the money I would need to pay for it?

In this video, Rhonda is asked “Should I visualize the lifestyle I desire or the amount of money I need to pay for it?” Rhonda suggests that intending or visualizing a particular lifestyle or celebration of success with friends is easier and more effective than simply picturing wads of money.

Are some people better at manifeting than others?

In this video, Rhonda answers the question as to whether some people are better at manifesting than others and whether we all have the same ability to manifest.

How can I overcome the belief that I have to work hard to make money?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can I manifest money when I can’t shake the belief that you have to work hard to make money?” Rhonda debunks the myth that the only way to manifest money is to work hard.

How can I begin to manifest money?

In this video, Rhonda describes the best method to begin manifesting money is to set yourself the intention of attracting a small amount of money or a very specific amount before moving on to more substantial money manifestations.

How can I manifest money when I am worried about my lack of money?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can I manifest wealth when I am worried about the lack of money?” Rhonda explains that money worries are the result of a mind too absorbed by thoughts of a lack of money, and the only way to turn that around is to think thoughts of plenty of money. Rhonda then goes on to explain how to overcome negative thoughts around money when you are dependent upon the next paycheck to live.

How can I escape debt?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can I escape the circle of debt and achieve financial freedom?” Rhonda offers advice on how to turn around poverty consciousness through your thoughts.

What is the greatest obstacle to making money?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “What are the main obstacles to receiving money?” Rhonda explains that the main obstacles to receiving money are your thoughts and beliefs about money that simply aren’t true. She goes on to describe a number of myths about making money and how important it is to stop believing them.

How can I attract big money fast?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “What’s the best affirmation to attract big money fast?” Rhonda offers her favourite affirmation for manifesting big money and also suggests that you should visualize whatever it is that big money represents to you.

How do I heal a broken relationship with myself?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How do you heal a broken relationships when the broken relationship is with yourself?” Rhonda explains the process of loving everything around you, and references her bestselling book, The Magic.

What action is required to manifest and what is meant by acting in a certain way?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “What does Wallace Wattles mean by Acting in a Certain Way and how does that relate to your advice that no action is necessary to manifest?” Rhonda explains that acting in a certain way simply means to act as though you have it already.

Can I manifest a love relationship with a friend?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Can I manifest a love relationship with a friend?” Rhonda explains that the friend has to want the same thing from the relationship as you cannot manifest in someone else’s experience.

How do I act as if I already have what I want?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How do you act and maintain the state you would be in as if what you want has already happened?” Rhonda suggests that you should simply go back to imagining you have what you want and how that would feel.

Do Affirmations work and can you recommend any Affirmations?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Does robotic affirmation work?” Rhonda explains the reason that it does is because every affirmation is a thought. Rhonda goes on to offer her two personal favourite affirmations.

What can I do to overcome opposing thoughts?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “When you have opposing thoughts, what can you do?” Rhonda describes her process of “Cancel, cancel,” to reverse any unwanted thought before it manifests.

How do I shake sadness away?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How do I shake away sadness to step into gratitude?” Rhonda explains that gratitude wipes out any negative emotion including sadness.

Should I visualize the steps to acquiring my dream or just the end result?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Should I visualize the end result of my dream home or should I focus on acquiring the land first?” Rhonda explains why it is essential to focus on the end result in all of your manifestations.

How can I overcome a belief that I’m holding on to?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can I overcome the belief that I have missed out on an opportunity and it will take years to recover?” Rhonda explains that the best approach is to recognise the belief and then let it go.

Do I have to let go of all my desires to experience the happiness of my true self?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Do I have to let go of all my desires to experience the happiness of my true self?” Rhonda explains that you do not need to let go of your desires, you just need to let go of all the attachments to your desires.

Should I visualize my desire every day or just once and let it go?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Should I visualize my desire every day or just once and let it go?” Rhonda explains that you should visualize once and let it go but live each day as though your desire has already manifested.

Why does my manifesting sometimes fail even though I have no doubt that I will receive it?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Why do people fail to manifest when they had no doubt that they would manifest their desire?” Rhonda explains that the Law of Attraction is infallible, and so if you are not manifesting what you want, it’s because you are sending the wrong signal.

How can I manifest positive thoughts?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How do you manifest positive thoughts?” Rhonda points out that if anything good has happened for you this week, then that’s an indication that you are already manifesting positive thoughts.

How does writing out my desires make them manifest?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How does writing our desires make them manifest?” Rhonda explains that when you write out your desires, you become really clear about what you want.

How can I manifest love?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How to manifest love?” Rhonda explains that the way to manifest love is to love everything.

How can I ask the Universe to help make a decision?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can we ask the Universe to help make a decision?” Rhonda suggests asking the Universe to show clearly which is the best path to take.

Can I manifest multiple desires at once?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Can we manifest 2-3 desires at the same time?” Rhonda suggests that this is not only possible but that it i highly advisable to have a list of multiple desires at any one time.

How can I stay positive when I’m surrounded by negativity?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can I stay positive when I’m surrounded by negativity on a daily basis?” Rhonda suggests doing everything you can to keep feeling good including using Secret Shifters.

Should I think of a Plan B while manifesting?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Should we think of a Plan B while manifesting?” Rhonda explains that she doesn’t spend time on a Plan B because she feels that if she did, then Plan B would manifest instead of Plan A.

How can I improve a relationship with thought?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “How can I improve a relationship with thought?” Rhonda suggests making a list of all the things you appreciate about the other person.

Should I make decisions in life or go with the flow?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Should we make decisions for our life or go with the flow?” Rhonda explains that she likes going with the flow and allowing life to present manifestations to her that far exceed her imagination.

How can I overcome doubt?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “I sometimes feel doubt. Am I on the right track? Am I on the right path?” Rhonda explains that all doubts emanate from thoughts and beliefs that you don’t have your manifestation.

How do I welcome negative emotions?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Can you go over how to welcome negative emotions?” Rhonda explains the process of welcoming negative emotions as discussed in her book, The Greatest Secret.

How can I evolve without suffering and unhappiness?

In this video, the reader questions Rhonda’s belief that we are meant to be happy all the time and counter-argues that only through problems or times of unhappiness are we able to evolve and grow. Rhonda explains that evolving through suffering is the progressive track whereas happiness and The Greatest Secret represents the direct path – you are already naturally perfect and you can simply remove negative feelings to reveal your happiness.

Can I manifest anger or happiness in others?

In this video, Rhonda is asked: “Can you manifest behaviour from others? And specifically is it possible to help others be happier?” Rhonda explains that it is not possible to make somebody else angry and that happiness is an inside job. However, as she explains, your own joy and happiness can help to lift up others.

How do I release anger and low self-esteem?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How do I release anger and low self-esteem?” Rhonda explains how low self-esteem is simply the result of believing incorrect thoughts. She also cites the welcoming practice from her new book ‘The Greatest Secret’ as the best practice to help release anger.

Do you recommend counselling to release negativity and aid positive thinking?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Do you recommend counseling to help release negativity and aid positive thinking?” Rhonda offers her thoughts on counseling and whether it can be helpful to release negativity and aid positive thinking.

Can the Welcoming Practice be applied for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Can the welcoming practice apply to OCD, obesessive compulsive disorder?” Rhonda asserts that the welcoming practice as described in her book, ‘The Greatest Secret’ can most certainly be used for OCD as well as anything negative that manifests in your life.

How do I wake up feeling happy and grateful instead of worried and sad?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How to wake up feeling happy and grateful?” Rhonda describes the very best way to wake up feeling happy and grateful rather than worried and sad.

How can I shake sadness away and step into gratitude?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “When you are so far away from what you want, how do you shake sadness away to step into gratitude?” Rhonda explains that practicing gratitude is the best way to remove sadness or negative thoughts. She cites her book, ‘The Magic’ which is a 28 day program of gratitude practices that is life changing.

What can I do about opposing thoughts?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “When you have opposing thoughts, what can you do?” Rhonda gives simple and useful tips on how to overcome thoughts that don’t serve you.

How important is meditation to manifesting?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How important is meditation to manifest?” Rhonda explains that meditation is great for those that love to meditate even though she herself did not have it as part of her journey.

What are the specific steps to effortless and fast manifestation?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “What are specific steps to effortless and fast manifestation by using The Greatest Secret?” Rhonda discusses how her book ‘The Greatest Secret’ explains in detail the mind and your power to manifest. She also describes how the book provides a greater understanding of the nature of the world, which allows you to effortlessly attract all of your desires.

How do I deal with anxiety?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “What is your advice on anxiety?” Rhonda discusses anxiety and where it comes from. She also cites the book, ‘Self Help For Your Nerves’ by Dr Claire Weekes, which was very influential in her own experience and recovery from anxiety.

Are we really all one being?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Why do you believe we are all one being?” Rhonda explains how she wants people to discover who they really are through their own experience rather than attempt to convince them of a new belief.

How do I overcome manic thoughts and the monkey mind?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How do you believe when the monkey mind takes over?” Rhonda explains the best way to overcome the manic thoughts that appear when you are upset and your mind is out of control is to simply notice the mind but don’t identify with those thoughts.

Is Receiving the same as being in Awareness?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Isn’t Receiving from The Secret, the same thing as being in awareness from The Greatest Secret?” Rhonda discusses this suggestion that the Receiving step within the creative process of Ask Believe Receive is the same thing as being in Awareness from The Greatest Secret.

How do I combat the negative energy within my life?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How do we combat negative energy that we are forced to interact with?” Rhonda explains that if you are feeling really good, any negative energy will not come into your experience. However, in the event that negative energy does appear, she suggests that you welcome the negative energy, which has the effect of completely disempowering it. This welcoming process is explained in her book, ‘The Greatest Secret.’

How can I do Affirmations even if I don’t believe them?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Can we write affirmations even if we don’t believe it?” Rhonda explains that the whole idea of doing affirmations is to repeat them over and over so that you eradicate the belief, or disbelief, in your subconscious mind and replace it with a new belief.

How can I be free of regret and resentment towards another?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How do you become free of regrets and resentment towards someone because of a situation that was unjust?” Rhonda explains that being truly free and discovering who you truly are frees you from all regrets and resentment.

How can I be more positive and not think negative thoughts?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How to be more positive and control the mind and not think negative thoughts?” Rhonda explains how to stay aware of your thoughts in order to disempower and weaken your negative thoughts.

How can I manifest citizenship?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Any tips and advice on how I can reach my dream to become an American citizen? How can I manifest it?” Rhonda offers some tips and advice on how to visualize obtaining citizenship including making a vision board and feeling the feelings of achieving your goal.

How can I deal with chronic pain and depression?

In this video, Rhonda is asked how to deal with incurable pain and chronic depression resulting from that. Rhonda advises that you should never say that pain is incurable or else you manifest that as a certainty. Instead, you should try to imagine the pain is gone in order to manifest a cure.

Can I manifest without taking action?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Do we always have to take action for what we want or can we manifest without action?” Rhonda explains that focussing on the outcome of what you want is more powerful than any action that you could ever take.

How can I feel happiness constantly when I sometimes feel low?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How do I feel happiness constantly? Sometimes I feel low and don’t understand why.” Rhonda explains that happiness occurs after doing the welcoming practice (from The Greatest Secret) due to the mind fading into the background. However, feeling low is the result of the mind returning.

How do I manifest my dream life when it doesn’t seem to be working?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “I’m fighting to manifest my dream life but it’s not working. How do I take my manifesting to the next level?” Rhonda explains that manifesting must be effortless to be effective and that you should not fight with anything or you will attract more fighting for what you want.

How do I live a life of purpose if this existence is not real?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “If this existence is not real, then how do I live a life of purpose?” Rhonda explains that your real purpose is to realise who you really are, and then life will place you exactly where you are meant to be to live your purpose.

How do I stop beating myself up for my past mistakes?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How do I stop beating myself up for past mistakes to move forward?” Rhonda explains that you should never let your mistakes define who you are and to leave your mistakes behind in the past.

What action is required to become a billionaire?

In this video, Rhonda is asked what action is required to become a billionaire? Rhonda explains that to become a billionaire, the first and most important action is to ask for a billion dollar idea.

What is the most powerful thought?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “What is the most powerful thought?” Rhonda explains that the most powerful thought of all is one that intends for the good of everyone.

Why can I only see glimpses of my manifestation?

In this video, Rhonda is asked about getting glimpses of a manifestation but not being able to fully manifest it. Rhonda explains that you need to feel as though you have your desire in your possession already in order for it to manifest.

Why can’t I manifest my desires?

In this video, Rhonda is asked why some people fail to manifest their desires. Rhonda explains that the law of attraction is infallible and that when desires don’t manifest, it’s often due to the wrong message and feeling being sent to the Universe.

What is the point to life and why do we have to suffer?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “Why do we have to suffer? And why can we only wake up when we’re in human form? What is the point of it all?” Rhonda explains that the point to all the suffering and why we forget who we really are is to experience the pure joy and the thrill of life in the material world.

How can I activate self-healing?

In this video, Rhonda is asked, “How can you activate self-healing and help your body self heal while feeling the discomfort in your body?” Rhonda explains the best way to activate self-healing despite any physical discomfort in the body through the use affirmations as seen in The Secret app and visualizing the body being well.

When should I practice welcoming versus observing feelings?

In this video, Rhonda delves into the difference between welcoming and observing feelings as discussed in ‘The Greatest Secret.’

How do I remain peaceful and calm in every situation?

In this video, Rhonda describes her early process for attempting to remain peaceful and calm in all circumstances by training her mind to be positive. She explains how she has since developed a process of welcoming (as seen in her book ‘The Greatest Secret’) whenever negative situations threaten to overwhelm her.

Am I creating resistance when I reject a negative thought?

In this video, Rhonda explains that letting a negative thought go and not identifying with it is the best way to reject a negative thought without creating resistance.

Is there really no death?

In this video, Rhonda explains the premise that there is no death, that the person, or the body, is mortal but the infinite being or awareness that you really are is immortal.

Can I manifest for my autistic son?

In this video, Rhonda empathizes with the mother of an autistic child and describes her own challenges with a family member living with a mental health condition.

How do I stop comparison thoughts?

In this video, Rhonda discusses how all thoughts are either comparing, describing, or measuring. She goes on to explain the importance of not identifying with those thoughts.

Does awareness know our true life’s purpose?

In this video, Rhonda explains our true life’s purpose according to awareness, which is to discover who you really are.

Is karma real?

In this video, Rhonda discusses karma, its origins, and its relationship to the law of attraction.

What is a rampage?

In this video, Rhonda explains what a rampage of gratitude is and how it can be used to with the law of attraction to manifest all that you desire.

How do I overcome fear of leaving loved ones behind when I die?

In this video, Rhonda talks about fear of dying and how to deal with being afraid of leaving loved ones behind.

How do I overcome the belief that I have missed out on an opportunity?

In this video, Rhonda explains how to let go of the belief that after missing out on an opportunity, it will then take years to get another opportunity.

How do I believe my visualization?

In this video, Rhonda describes the best way to visualize so that you believe what you are visualizing, specifically by placing yourself in the picture.

How can I manifest a new job?

In this video, Rhonda offers some tips and advice on how to manifest a new job. For more information on manifesting a new or better job, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

How do I stay happy if I’m surrounded by negative people?

In this video, Rhonda explains how to stay happy around negative people by welcoming rather than resisting the negative people. For more information on manifesting better relationships, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

How can I manifest clear skin?

In this video, Rhonda explains the best way to manifest clear skin, or anything else that you might want. For more information on the techniques to help you manifest perfect skin, good health, and wellbeing, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

How do I feel and act as if I don’t have money problems?

In this video, Rhonda advises what to do to feel good when you can’t pay your bills. She refers to her own experiences with extreme debt, and cites ‘The Secret to Money’ app as an excellent tool to help with your money mindset. For more information on manifesting more money into your life, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

How do I manifest becoming pregnant?

In this video, Rhonda discusses the best practice for manifesting your desires by focussing on the end result, in this case, having a baby in your arms, rather than thinking too much about becoming pregnant, where there might be resistance. For more information on manifesting pregnancy as well as better health for yourself, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

How do I manifest being debt free?

To overcome fear and anxiety around debt, Rhonda recommends ‘The Secret to Money’ app featuring all of the financial practices that she developed to change her subconscious mind from lack to abundance. For more information on manifesting a life of abundance, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

What can I do if my body is failing physically?

Rhonda recommends her book, The Greatest Secret for anyone who is dealing with failing physical health and in particular, to help understand the impermanence of the body as opposed to the eternal nature of our true selves.

What is the correct process to use The Secret Check?

In this video, Rhonda explains the correct use of The Secret check and whether the right process involves writing a current or future date on the check. For more information on manifesting more money into your life, get Rhonda’s new book, The Secret to Love, Health, and Money: A Masterclass.

How do I stay positive among negative co-workers?

In this video, Rhonda advises that the best way to stay positive is to remain focused on your own happiness and to allow others to be negative if that is their choice.

How do I recover my power to attract things?

In this video, Rhonda asserts that we can never lose our power to attract as that would be impossible. However, as she explains, we can attract the experience of not having the power to attract because we are that powerful. She concludes with a handy tip on how to rediscover your confidence in your power to manifest.

What is the purpose for us to be on Planet Earth?

In this video, Rhonda suggests that our purpose to be on Planet Earth is to experience life within a material world simply for the joy and fun of it – that even though we are all the one infinite being, we desired to have this experience of being separate. Through her book, ‘The Greatest Secret,’ Rhonda wishes to remind you of who you really are.

What is the right way to say affirmations?

In this video, Rhonda explains the best way to do affirmations and how often to do them.

What if I manifest what I don’t want?

In this video, Rhonda explains what to do if you manifest the wrong thing due to untrained imagination and how to avoid energizing thoughts of what you don’t want.