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Attracted A Relationship With My Longtime Crush!!!
Submitted by: J
California, USAA graduate student learning about marine biology and surrendering to the power of the Universe.
I had a crush on this guy for easily a year. He is a little older than me and very popular. We had become close friends from working on a long-term project together for three years. There had been a few times that he hinted that he found me attractive or that he enjoyed being around me more than other people that he interacted with, but I never in a million years thought that he returned my feelings.
For about 8 months, I worked at a lab where I was basically in a small room all day with a laundry list of tests and experiments that I needed to complete. I found that this was the best time for me in terms of manifestation!
On my breaks, I would go into an empty office room that no one used and I knew I wouldn’t be bothered and I would close my eyes and imagine us in a relationship together. I imagined us cuddling on the couch and him playing with my hair and telling me how much he liked me and so on and so forth. I would get so into these visualizations that a huge smile always crossed my face and my phone alarm always made me jump.
I also wrote down affirmations over and over again such as “P is madly in love with me”. I kind of felt like a crazy stalker, but it made me feel good at the moment and so I just kept doing it for a few weeks.
Have you ever experienced that moment when you are driving on a familiar stretch of road and you completely zone out? Your mind just kind of wanders wherever? That would happen to me at my job all the time as I would usually just plug in my music and zone out as I completed my tasks.
While I was doing this one day, I was suddenly struck with the image of me telling P how I felt about him at a bar. I had always thought that my manifestation would come in the form of him telling me, but this image in my head put butterflies in my stomach.
I was going to move out of town in a month or so and so not only did I have a good excuse to ask him out for beers, but I decided that if the conversation went in the direction of what I had visualized, then I was going to order a shot of tequila and go for it! At that point, I didn’t have anything to lose.
Low and behold, we ended up staying at the bar for several hours and got pretty deep into conversation. Then low and behold, that conversation naturally gravitated towards him asking me if I had any regrets before I left.
Just like in the visualization that came to me out of the clear blue sky, I told him that if I was going to give him that answer then he was going to have to buy me my third shot. He did.
With my heart pounding, I told him how I felt, and without hesitating, he started kissing me!! I still can’t believe it! He said that he had wanted to be with me for a while too but never wanted to tell me.
Long story short, I moved away and we have tentatively begun a long-distance relationship. At first, I thought that after that night at the bar, we would just have a short and fun fling before I left.
However, the night before I left, he told me that he had really fallen for me over the past few days and that he didn’t want the time that we had together to just become a fond memory.
We now skype quite a bit and he is visiting me next week!!
I know that we will have to put in even more positive vibrations to overcome this distance, but I believe that we will make it through this!
Don’t give up on your dreams and keep feeling light on what you want. Best of luck to everyone!