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From Desperate To Happiness.
Submitted by: Lidija Sh. N.
North MacedoniaBorn in Ohrid, married, pregnant, happy, in love, and grateful for my life.
A few years ago I had a bad, toxic relationship and fortunately, it ended before we made it even worse. But, I was broken, desperate, and scared, and I felt like I did not have a life.
My sister at that time had the book, The Secret, and she said to me that I had to read this book, I need to read this book.
So I took it from her, and started reading about other people’s experiences, and how they succeeded in life.
I started to think about what I wanted for my life in those days. So I really asked myself. I wanted a boyfriend, one that would love me truly, honestly, and just the way I am. Someone that would make me a better person. I also wanted to get married.
Then, I realized what kind of boy I needed, and what he should do, say, and how he should act. I made a list with all his characteristics. Then I also wrote down some material things that I wanted and for him to have. I am not a materialistic person at all, but we all have some needs. And as the book says, ask for what you want. I put the paper on the wall in my room and I read it every day until I started visualizing it and believing that it would happen. I would say thank you every day as if I already had all those things that I wanted.
A few months later I met a boy who had everything I asked for, everything! I almost could not believe it! After a month we started dating, and after two months we got married! Now, 4 years later we are expecting our twin girls and I am grateful every day for everything I have in my life.