Thank you to Rhonda and The Secret. I’ve been using The Secret for many years now and it never fails. However, I’m far from perfect and sometimes forget to use it when my life is on track. My story today is how I was feeling really in tune with The Secret and decided to push my boundaries of belief.

I had been dating a widower for over 4 years and he was adamant that he would never marry again as he’d had his only true love and felt nothing would replace her. You could imagine my grief and feeling like I was way down on the pedestal. Having spoken to a few wise women, they advised me that losing a loved one can take many years of mourning. I had no doubt that he truly loved me but I wanted the fairy tale.

I began to write positive affirmations about being engaged and said them at any time when my mind was free. I felt good about it. I stopped thinking it was impossible and I began thinking ‘I am engaged’. This made me feel good. I imagined touching the base of the ring with my thumb, the shine and the shape.

Then, out of the blue, he proposed to me! It was a simple proposal. We were bodyboarding on Fistral beach in Cornwall. I looked like a drowned rat in a wet suit but I was elated!

My thoughts for you are to keep visualizing, saying positive affirmations, and if they are wild, believe!