I want to start off by saying how grateful I am to have found this amazing book and all the wonderful things it has to offer.

I am 27 years old and although that may seem young, I have always considered myself an old soul. With that being said, I had always wanted a companion in life and was never the type to casually date. As I grew into a young woman I had my fair share of men that did not value me. This led me to doubt my self-worth and wonder why there weren’t any good men out there anymore. Looking back on this, I now realize that I was focusing on the “lack” of a companion.

After a bad breakup with a man I had been with for 2 years, I began to put myself out there and date. This led to even more negative thoughts as no one I seemed to meet was who I was looking for. A year went by and I began to feel depressed, thinking that I would never find anyone. I am in a small town so this is really hard.

This is when I came across The Secret. I decided to write down everything I wanted in a man and husband. I even wrote down physical attributes I wanted, like dark hair, strong build, light eyes, etc. After writing it I kind of forgot about it.

I decided to give up on dating. Then the magic happened. My friend wanted me to meet her boyfriend’s friend and go out with him. I was so tired of dating that I really did not want to. A little more pushing and I agreed. Fast forward a year and a half later and I am the happiest I have ever been! I found the most wonderful, caring and loving man and I still can’t believe he loves me. I remembered the list I made and I could not believe it. My man had almost all the qualities and attributes I had written down almost 2 years ago! Even down to the eye color. He has even talked about getting married.

For anyone out there that has felt so lonely and has given up hope, I have been there and know how you feel. I thought I would never find someone for me. But if you really focus on what you truly want and not what you don’t have, the magic will happen for you. Stay patient and positive and anything is possible.